Since Mel posted, I'll step into the choppy waters and share a few thoughts. Not that it will hold any worth to anyone but this whole thread has been..interesting.
Seems there is a lot of sand being kicked up in the sandbox at the moment and this conversation has taken on a life of its own, hasn't it? and not is such a good way either. If Charlie is getting PO'ed about it, thats NOT a good thing, and gosh, I hope Charlie doesn't get PO'ed at me too. lol.
recap~ a member, who hasn't contributed on any board posted on the classifieds. Then the rumblings and grumblings took off, complaints that if you can't post and share and be a part of the group, you shouldnt have/don't have any right to post on the classifieds. Right? As it has been brought up, there are rules and guidelines and its up to Charlie and the moderators to make sure everyone is complying with those. If someone oversteps their boundries, I'm pretty sure their post(s) or part of it will be POOFED. No questions asked. lol. So, if a member who hasn't contribuated on other boards posts on the classifieds and there is a rule that you have to contribute in order to use the classifieds, the last call rests on the owners decision. Why any member can validate they have the right to write negative comments about the ad is perplexing
" if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all" AND " Silence is golden"..
being human, we can't go into any site and not get ticked off by someone elses posts every now and then and everyone shares their views openly here, but when it comes to classifieds, I am dumbfounded why anyone feels they have a right to be critical of someone's Ad. ??? I was wondering where the guidelines say " if you think what is for sale is a piece of junk, please respond and let the seller know" OR " if you feel the price offered is out of line, let them know about it".
I have my own site and I know how difficult it can be to keep the peace and somedays its seems impossible. Personalities clash. when I'm in a bad mood or ticked off, that's probably not the best time to respond to someone's post, so I step away from the puter ..it will save everyone elses blood pressure spiking and all will stay calm..or in time I'll be calm again. lol
Have a great 2013 everyone..
Cathleen