Gerry and Joseph, let me try to make a little peace here!
1. Jeff Baker is a good guy, and an experienced hand at this forum.
2. Gerry is a good guy, and an experienced hand at this forum.
3. Joseph is a good guy, but not very experienced at this forum.
(Do you see where I'm going with this?)
The One-and-Done rant by Tom Hoffman wasn't about newbies, it was about folks who sign up on Friday, post a "For Sale" ad in the Classified section (at a high price, not in an effort to help fellow forum members), and are never heard from again. Tom takes offense and feels that these users are taking advantage of the forum instead of contributing to it. Many others agree with him, others don't, still others figure it is the price of doing business.
Joseph, I would not classify you in the "1nDone" category -- you've posted at least three times now, even by Gerry's count. However, there is a learning curve to using this forum, and even long-time members (like Tom Hoffman himself) sometimes stray beyond the rules.
What Gerry means to tell you (in my opinion), is that you will get better answers if you can be as specific as possible with your questions. It is a shame you can't post pictures, but perhaps you can find a way. If not, take lessons from posters like Harry Bursell who can describe a problem or solution in such detail that the other person can picture it in their mind.
It is sometimes tough to get what you want in this life, and this forum, and especially its owner, make no apologies. They didn't get what they've got without effort, and they're not going to give their knowledge away just for the heck of it.
HOWEVER, EVERYONE I'VE ENCOUNTERED ON THIS FORUM IS WILLING TO SHARE WITH SOMEONE IN NEED. But if they don't know what you need, it is difficult for them to respond (ask Marlin H.).
Anyway, as a newcomer, the burden is on you to fit in, even though your feelings might get hurt in the process. Hang in there --IT WILL GET BETTER.
Sorry for the shouting (ALL CAPS) I just want to emphasize a few of my points.
Take care, and happy Cubbing.